 Shall we play?
Thanks to our friends, there is a wonderful playground in a yard at the Good Shepherd Shelter. A good playground is a rarity in Ukraine and therefore boys and girls who live nearby often come to play. We see this in a positive light because our children can learn to make friends with children from families and can also learn how to be hospitable to guests. But how different these children are, as if from two different worlds! In one world you can feel free from danger, you can relax in knowing that at any moment a tender loving mom or a caring grandmother will come to your aid. The other world is the world in which an abandoned child lives--in which you can never show that you are weak and you must constantly evaluate the situation around you in order to be prepared to give a rebuff and defend yourself and your own whenever necessary. For you there is no one to rely upon, all you have is your own strength. Cruel? But cruel and a reality for these children. They live in this reality at school, on the street, and at home. And I observe anew how light-hearted little girls from good homes play with dolls, sew clothes for them, make little houses for them, and I look at our dear little girls who have already seen and lived through such pain that even adults haven’t faced. Pain makes you more grown up, and you already look at the world differently, with somewhat sad eyes. Our girls rarely play with dolls…
 Autumn vacation
Two months of fall flew by and two long-awaited weeks of vacation began for our children. There are 23 students at the Good Shepherd Shelter. They range from Kolya A., Andrey S., and Danil T. who entered the first grade to Dima T. who will graduate this year. The rest of the children are in the primary and middle classes. Some have already decided for sure that they will become a cook or a police officer after school and some are still pondering. The staff and friends of the Good Shepherd Shelter pray for each of our children, that they will find themselves and their calling in order to be useful to the Lord and those around them. Vacation is the best time! During vacation you can finally sleep in (on school days the children are awakened at 6:15 a.m.), discuss with your friends everything that you wanted so much to discuss, but you didn’t have enough time, play soccer, ride bikes, take part in competitions, visit relatives. Vacation is the most wonderful time--you can ask any child at the Good Shepherd Shelter, but how quickly the time flies!
 Beauty contest
It goes without saying that every one of our children is the most beautiful to us. You see the child, worry about him, try to feel what he feels, and the child becomes the most beautiful to you! But how many doubts and questions about their appearance spring up in every head, especially in the heads of girls! The difficulties and problems that they lived through with their parents left their mark on the outlook of the children and the children’s opinions of themselves. And how important it is to raise this opinion and tell a child that he is special in our eyes and the eyes of the Lord! We held a small hairstyle contest in which all the boys and girls competed, young and old. Everyone styled their hair and we prepared small prizes. At the end of a few contests, we determined the winners. We thank God for this time, a chance to be together, to laugh and make each other happy! Is this not indeed a family?!
 An evening of music
Music is around us everywhere—at the store, on the bus, when we move, think, and relax. What kind of music do you listen to? What is it about? Is it sad or happy? We decided to organize an evening of music in order to widen our children’s understanding of music. We invited guests who play various instruments. Together we were able to listen to different types of music, to reflect on what music carries with it, and to participate in skits and games. It is also a great joy to us that five of our girls of different ages have begun to take piano lessons. The teacher comes to us for the lessons. To those who practice with great desire comes ongoing improvement and inspiration. Please pray for our children, that they will have desire and zeal and will learn to overcome challenges.
 Good Shepherd Shelter Pedagogical Conference
Six educators work in our team. Three educators work with the oldest group and middle group, and three work with the youngest group. To be an educator is a special position in our home because you are an example—you are watched and evaluated, tested, and questioned. You are tested to find if you can be trusted--are you a true friend or only pretending? How can one be a wise educator? Where can one get the strength and wisdom to receive, understand, and help a child? Glory to the Lord that we can always turn to Him. In the Bible it is written “ “ and therefore the pedagogical team gets together every three months in order to advise each other, share experience, and pray for our children together. Also, at every conference an appointed educator prepares a report on a given theme applicable to us. At the last conference the educators discussed the book How to Love a Child, by the renowned Polish teacher Yanusha Korchaka.
 Six questions
In October, our Kristina B. turned fifteen. Kristina has lived at our home for around three years. She is a serious and responsible girl. This summer, Kristina helped the cook prepare food for 50 people at the camp our children attended. She loves to work and is able to cope with difficulties.
We asked our Kristina six questions:
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Kristina, what do you love to do? |
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What do you want to achieve in your life? |
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I love to read, play sports, and of course to sleep. |
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Respect and understanding. |
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What don’t you like to do? |
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What do you want to become? |
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Sometimes it’s hard for me at school. |
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A hair stylist. |
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What is most important in life for a person? |
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What is your dream? |
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I figure that the most important thing is to achieve a given goal. |
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To visit Africa. |
 One girl’s story
This girl’s name is Alyona. She has lived with us for only a few months. She is ten years old and is in the third grade. She has blue eyes and is a very lively, active girl. It sometimes seems that her energy and optimism have no limit. Alyona has only a mother. Her mother has HIV, doesn’t work, and drinks. Alyona lived with her mother in a rented house without electricity and unheated because no one bought coal. Alyona rarely went to school and when she did, she was dirty and had lice. Her mother brought her to our home. Alyonka easily joined in with our group of children and became friends with other girls. Our teacher is working with Alyona in order to get her up to par for school. Alyonka is also studying games and piano. She came up herself and said that she wants to study with the other children. Every parent can make a mistake and sometimes these mistakes are irreparable. Every adult can give in to his perpetual troubles and despair. And while the adult looks for a way out, the child suffers and it falls upon the child to pay for others’ mistakes and resolve adult problems. Praise the Lord that in the life of this little girl something changed--she doesn’t have lice, someone is caring for her health and development, she can go to school, learn to play piano, and most importantly simply be joyful and give us her smiles and happiness every day!
Dear friends, praise the Lord that He cares for us, looks after our needs, helps in times of trouble. Thank you very much for your prayers and spiritual and material support. We help the children together — you on your end and the staff of the Good Shepherd Shelter on the other. And may our Lord rejoice when he sees our united work for these children! Dear friends, we thank each of you very much for being with us!
Please pray together with us:
the bright spiritual condition of our children and staff
relations between the children and staff, that the Lord would give understanding of one another
the health of the children and staff of the Good Shepherd Shelter. Right now in Ukraine the flu virus is spreading. Schools and public places are closed to visitors and it is recommended to go out on the streets wearing a mask. Please pray that the Lord will protect our children from illness.
the children’s education, their effort, wisdom, and desire to overcome difficulties
Our material needs:
food for the children
purchase of medical supplies
auto maintenance
staff salaries
renovation of the shower rooms and bathrooms for the boys and girls
carpeting for the hallway
carpeting for the stairway
payment for the children’s lessons in piano, English, physics, and math
carpet washer/vacuum cleaner
5 electric hand dryers
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